EXXXOTICA Expo, the largest adult lifestyle event in the United States dedicated to love, sex, and authentic human connection, today shared an open letter from founder J. Handy marking the beginning of its 21st year. The announcement introduces the 2026 theme “Escape Your Reality” and reaffirms the organization’s commitment to creating safe, welcoming spaces for exploration, education, and community.

In the letter, posted on the official EXXXOTICA website and shared across social channels, Handy reflects on the past two decades of growth while addressing the current global and political climate. He emphasizes EXXXOTICA’s role as a vital refuge where people can step away from division, fear, and uncertainty to celebrate sexuality, mental well-being, and genuine relationships.

“This is more than an event series—it’s a movement toward healing through openness and joy,” Handy writes. “In a world that often feels fractured, we choose to build bridges through consent, respect, and shared pleasure. Our 2026 theme, ‘Escape Your Reality,’ invites attendees to leave external pressures at the door and reconnect with themselves and others in a judgment-free environment.”

Key highlights from the announcement include:

Enhanced Safety Measures: EXXXOTICA is implementing strengthened security protocols, clear communication standards, and zero-tolerance policies for harassment or disrespect at all venues. The organization is directly addressing performer and attendee concerns to ensure everyone feels protected inside event spaces.

Commitment to Inclusivity: All 2026 events will continue to prioritize diversity, equity, and representation, with dedicated areas for LGBTQ+ programming, fetish and kink communities, swing lifestyle spaces, and educational seminars.

2026 Tour Schedule: The season features confirmed stops in:

• Chicago, IL (April 10-12, 2026)
• Minneapolis, MN
• Edison, NJ
• Miami, FL

Focus on Mental Health and Community: The theme underscores the importance of mental wellness, encouraging attendees to use the event as a positive escape that fosters empowerment and connection rather than escapism through avoidance.

EXXXOTICA remains the premier destination for adult consumers, featuring hundreds of exhibitors showcasing the latest in pleasure products, live performances, celebrity meet-and-greets, expert-led seminars, and after-parties. Ladies Free Friday continues to welcome all identifying women on opening nights at no cost, sponsored by partners like WIFEY.com.

“We’ve spent 21 years proving that love and sex deserve celebration, not shame,” Handy concludes. “As we enter this next chapter, we invite everyone—performers, fans, educators, and allies—to join us in choosing connection over conflict.”

For full details, including the complete founder’s letter, ticket information, schedules, and exhibitor opportunities, visit exxxoticaexpo.com. You can also follow them on X at @EXXXOTICA.